Hi there - just wondered what others have experienced trying to maintain separate bedrooms. In utter desperation I had to move out of our double bed and bedroom last week as the Hypersexuality has nearly destroyed me. I talked it through with OH of 45 years and for one joyous night I was not interrupted. However he now comes in a couple of times a night and sometimes frightens me (not his fault necessarily but I am triggered by trauma in early childhood. ) To stop him coming in last night I put a chair against the door but he is very strong and pushed it away he was upset and I got up quickly, tripped and fell and spent the rest of the night downstairs whilst he made tea (instructions have to be given now) so my question is:
I have a guy coming to put a bathroom type handle on my bedroom door which I can lock from inside and I can keep the door “locked” during the day - is there any point in this - it would of course keep him from wee-☺️In there
anyone gone back on their decision and gone back to the double bed. Last night was 9th night: 1 good night with no disturbance; , 2 horrendous and six just about manageable.
I have asked for urgent app at Mental Health Hub.
does any drug guarantee unbrokeN rest for the carer
thanks for listening
I have a guy coming to put a bathroom type handle on my bedroom door which I can lock from inside and I can keep the door “locked” during the day - is there any point in this - it would of course keep him from wee-☺️In there
anyone gone back on their decision and gone back to the double bed. Last night was 9th night: 1 good night with no disturbance; , 2 horrendous and six just about manageable.
I have asked for urgent app at Mental Health Hub.
does any drug guarantee unbrokeN rest for the carer
thanks for listening