Dear Candy, your brother is unbelievable if he were to worry about anything it should be his mum's well being not her financial assets. It's so unfair that he has brought this burden on you and I can well understand your distress. Do you have to comply with the request from the Guardianship Office?. I never ever kept records on what was spent on mum prior to going into care but I do keep records of all the care home payments. The only reason being in case they query a payment wasn't made. Somehow, I hope all this is sorted without to much trauma to you. Caring Thoughts, Taffy.