I'm sure my Dad has Dementia, but he will not go to the Doctors. Not only that, he is struggling to see in the dark whilst driving due to headlights. He doesn't want to drive any more but feels obliged to take my Cousin to and from work (rush hour) five days a week. My Dad lives with his brother and sister in law and his nephew. He is due to receive a DVLA form next week as it's coming up to his 76th birthday. My Uncle is in the car with him 99.9% of the time and is issuing instructions. He's forgetting routes, going in the wrong lanes and has recently clipped the curb twice in the same week and had to have two new tyres. It seems the rest of my family are selfish to say the least and are actively encouraging him to drive to suit their own ends! I can report him to the DVLA. I also found out today that I can go to my GP and let him contact my Dad's GP. I can also contact the Police on 101. It's a truly awful position to be in, but I am thinking of my Dad's safety and also other road users etc. I am now being pressured by a friend (who has known my Dad most of their lives) to report and report tomorrow. I have a Doctor's appointment on Tuesday on an unrelated matter. Do I hang fire and hope the DVLA form is filled in correctly. I can't sleep, and I'm so upset, and also SO angry that the rest of the family is willing to let my Dad continue in this way. I've told him he can get medication to help with his memory but he won't go. He won't go to the Opticians. The family will know it's me who has reported it as it couldn't be anyone else. My Dad says it will cause bad feeling if he stops taking my Cousin to work and he has to live with them. He gave this reason before he became ill as well...