Hello,
My mum has been in a care home for 3 months now. It was meant to be temporary after she had falls which put her in hospital, but it looks like it's going to be permanent (I haven't told her this as she gets upset at the thought of not going home).
She is self-funding and she really doesn't want to sell her house, as wants it to pass to me and my kids. I think if we rent it out she will have enough monthly income to cover care costs. I'm not bothered about inheritance, so I would sell it if needs be, but I want to keep to her wishes as much as possible (as she hasn't been able to physically look after my kids, this is how she wants to help).
She has enough savings to last about 3 more months, but then we will need the extra income. However, I'm finding it really hard to accept that this is it, and to start clearing the house to get it ready to rent. It feels like a really big step.
I'm also not sure how to go about it. I have 3 young kids so no time to go through all her stuff and clear it myself, so I was thinking of using a house clearance company. Does anyone have experience of these?
I'm also not sure whether to tell my mum that we're doing it? The care home she's in is just around the corner, and she has asked friends to take her back to her house before, and I wouldn't want her to go there and then realise (even though she would forget).
Any advice appreciated! Thank you 😊
My mum has been in a care home for 3 months now. It was meant to be temporary after she had falls which put her in hospital, but it looks like it's going to be permanent (I haven't told her this as she gets upset at the thought of not going home).
She is self-funding and she really doesn't want to sell her house, as wants it to pass to me and my kids. I think if we rent it out she will have enough monthly income to cover care costs. I'm not bothered about inheritance, so I would sell it if needs be, but I want to keep to her wishes as much as possible (as she hasn't been able to physically look after my kids, this is how she wants to help).
She has enough savings to last about 3 more months, but then we will need the extra income. However, I'm finding it really hard to accept that this is it, and to start clearing the house to get it ready to rent. It feels like a really big step.
I'm also not sure how to go about it. I have 3 young kids so no time to go through all her stuff and clear it myself, so I was thinking of using a house clearance company. Does anyone have experience of these?
I'm also not sure whether to tell my mum that we're doing it? The care home she's in is just around the corner, and she has asked friends to take her back to her house before, and I wouldn't want her to go there and then realise (even though she would forget).
Any advice appreciated! Thank you 😊