My husband was admitted to hospital 3 months ago and thought he would not survive but he did - pneumonia and other problems. Then he was removed to a "cottage hospital" 2 weeks later which is mostly old people with dementia or similar problems. He has Parkinsons, Lewy Body, Dysphagia, double incontinence and just speaks to people who are not there. He mostly does not know who I am when I visit every day. So I have 2 questions.
We were refused CHC a couple of days ago but no reason why from SS - not heard anything else since and I have been told by a friend not to ask as long as he is in hospital care it is costing me nothing. He has just over the limit for free and will have to pay for Self Funding which is 1200 pounds a week where we live - God forbid. -
Question 1 - Should I ask about what is going to happen or let them tell me
Question 2 - how long do you stay for visiting and how many times do you go there,
I go mostly every day and feel guilty if I don't go - it eats me up if I stay home. My daughter in law is a mental health nurse and told me to stop going and go 2 days and 1 off. What do you do?
We were refused CHC a couple of days ago but no reason why from SS - not heard anything else since and I have been told by a friend not to ask as long as he is in hospital care it is costing me nothing. He has just over the limit for free and will have to pay for Self Funding which is 1200 pounds a week where we live - God forbid. -
Question 1 - Should I ask about what is going to happen or let them tell me
Question 2 - how long do you stay for visiting and how many times do you go there,
I go mostly every day and feel guilty if I don't go - it eats me up if I stay home. My daughter in law is a mental health nurse and told me to stop going and go 2 days and 1 off. What do you do?