The meeting went OK
Hi Everyone
All those good wishes in my direction did the trick.
The meeting went well, albeit over an hour late (poor hubby had to be rung at short notice again to collect the children from school and pre-school
). The area manager did the assessment. He basically talked to dad, explained about the home etc. Dad did not seem to be particularly concerned about anything that was mentioned.
Then something odd happened, for some unknown dementia related reason, dad suddenly thought that he was being interviewed for a job at the home
and began answering the questions as such. Such answers as "I'm the right man for the job and I won't let you down
. The area manager took it all in his stride and stepped into "dad's world".
End result, manager is happy to take dad on a 4 week trial and believes that he will fit in.
Also, music to my ears, the area manager stated "without any prompting from me" that for dad's placement he had waived the top up fee and that was a permanent arrangement.
(I need a backwards flip smilie here!!) It is all arranged that dad moves in on a trial basis this Thursday.(Collapse in a heap, nearly at the finish line smilie).
Also got a bit more background, the area manager used to be the manager of dad's new CH until about 2 months ago when he got the area managers job. Seems a pleasant chap (very, very shiny suit and waxed back hair) but he is really tuned in to dementia. At dad's new CH they are using new style door signs. An example, dad's door will be an orange surround which shows it is a bedroom, it will also say clearly bedroom, underneath it will be a photo of dad together with his name. Must admit, these signs stuck out to me when I visited and I thought what a great idea.
Fingers crossed again for me on Thursday.
Love Burfordthecat x x