Hi everyone, I've just joined and spent some time reading various posts. I'm sat in bed with tears rolling down my face as I read through various posts and discussions. I'm sad at the stories I'm reading but also emotional that so many people are in the same boat as myself and my parents.
My dad was diagnosed with late onset Alzheimer's a couple of years ago. At the moment my mum cares for him at home... doing pretty much everything for him. She does a REMARKABLE job considering she's 82. Unfortunately, I live abroad I have daily contact with my parents and try to assist my mum with anything I can from a distance. When I visit, I do as much as possible to ease her load but being so far away I am riddled with guilt that I don't do more.
I'm currently visiting them as my mum was unwell a few weeks ago with high blood pressure and struggled to look after dad. This was a huge wake up call to get an emergency care plan in place hence the reason for my visit.
Trying to figure out what is best to do for my dad but also for my rundown and tired mum has been overwhelming. I keep finding things to read online for advice and then I click on new links in the page which takes me to another page so at the moment I must have about 50 tabs open on my browser!! So much information to take in and at the same time I feel like I don't know where to go for help with understanding it all and making the correct and necessary decisions #overwhelming
I will post elsewhere on the forum for some sage advice from other experienced members but for now hello from a stressed daughter of a beloved Alzheimer's father and a very tired carer mother.
My dad was diagnosed with late onset Alzheimer's a couple of years ago. At the moment my mum cares for him at home... doing pretty much everything for him. She does a REMARKABLE job considering she's 82. Unfortunately, I live abroad I have daily contact with my parents and try to assist my mum with anything I can from a distance. When I visit, I do as much as possible to ease her load but being so far away I am riddled with guilt that I don't do more.
I'm currently visiting them as my mum was unwell a few weeks ago with high blood pressure and struggled to look after dad. This was a huge wake up call to get an emergency care plan in place hence the reason for my visit.
Trying to figure out what is best to do for my dad but also for my rundown and tired mum has been overwhelming. I keep finding things to read online for advice and then I click on new links in the page which takes me to another page so at the moment I must have about 50 tabs open on my browser!! So much information to take in and at the same time I feel like I don't know where to go for help with understanding it all and making the correct and necessary decisions #overwhelming
I will post elsewhere on the forum for some sage advice from other experienced members but for now hello from a stressed daughter of a beloved Alzheimer's father and a very tired carer mother.