I am so happy to have found this forum. My ninety-six year old Aunt is in memory care and assisted living community center. She always tells me she hates it there. I have her car and she was told to not drive any longer because of bad eyes. Then she had a stroke and lost the use of her right hand. She thinks she is just fine and wants to have me bring her car to the facility and leave it there for her. Now I realize she can't drive her car any longer. But I don't know what to do. I do have Power Of Attorney with her. Do I bring her car to her and tell the facility what is going on and communicate with the local police department? I cannot have her get behind the wheel for her safety and for others safety. She seems to think that she is just fine and only had a small stroke. She has not been told she has dementia but it is progressing each and every day. She thinks people are trying to poison her and steal her clothing. Any suggestions as to how to proceed?
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