I lost my lovely Mum in August to Alzheimer's and vascular dementia. She was diagnosed in 2019 and it was so sad to see her struggle. This year she really went downhill until she was on end of life care from early August. Dad and I sat by her bed every day in the care home, but she never really woke up from her hospital release. I feel so down and upset. I feel I haven't been happy for four years. I have memories of my Mum everywhere in our town. I dream about her, where she is hugging me which is lovely, but I wake up crying and feel miserable all day. I have no enthusiasm for anything, I'm lacking energy, don't really want to do anything. I left my job in June because new people took over and I couldn't cope with the change and also everything with Mum and Dad to deal with. My sister never helped with Mum and Dad and was abusive to me when I asked for help. I feel I've lost her as well. On top of all that I'm analysing myself because I'm worried about getting dementia, even though I know I shouldn't worry about that because I'll make myself even more down. My husband is supporting me, but these thoughts are in my head all the time. Just really awful.