I was hoping the hot weather was responsible for ohs problems.But it would seem not. Getting him up in the morning is supervision every step of the way.
Mobility is also going downhill at an alarming rate. The ot have been so good. We have got him to agree to turning the living room into a bedsit, for a new profiling bed for him and they are looking for ways to move him from there to the bathroom- not so easy in a small house with a husband who weighs 20 stone!.
I feel guilty about the way I had to manipulate him to get agreement. I had to put the idea in his mind that he was doing it all for me and it would make my life easier. I've tried all our time together not to emotionally blackmail him (first wife was a star at this) but I feel like this is exactly what I am doing. But it did make him agree to things he fought tooth and nail to avoid.
It will only get worse
Mobility is also going downhill at an alarming rate. The ot have been so good. We have got him to agree to turning the living room into a bedsit, for a new profiling bed for him and they are looking for ways to move him from there to the bathroom- not so easy in a small house with a husband who weighs 20 stone!.
I feel guilty about the way I had to manipulate him to get agreement. I had to put the idea in his mind that he was doing it all for me and it would make my life easier. I've tried all our time together not to emotionally blackmail him (first wife was a star at this) but I feel like this is exactly what I am doing. But it did make him agree to things he fought tooth and nail to avoid.
It will only get worse