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pamann

Registered User
Oct 28, 2013
2,635
Kent
Dear Verity sending you lots of ((((HUGS)))) hope Fred will miss you when you are away, l am sure deep down he loves you very much.
 

truth24

Registered User
Oct 13, 2013
5,725
North Somerset
Just to let you know that Fred seemed a bit happier this morning so will go on holiday with a lighter heart. T told me that although his initial reaction to me was NO NO NO, his eyes followed me as I went to get him a drink and then to find Baby. He certainly seemed more content when he woke properly. So I live in hope that he may be pleased to see me next week when I get back. Thank you all for caring. xxx
 

beverrino

Registered User
Jan 12, 2015
1,110
A huge hug from me too xx Enjoy your holiday and as the infection passes I am sure he will be happy to see you on your return. Try and relax and enjoy some 'me' time xx
 

chick1962

Registered User
Apr 3, 2014
11,282
near Folkestone
Just to let you know that Fred seemed a bit happier this morning so will go on holiday with a lighter heart. T told me that although his initial reaction to me was NO NO NO, his eyes followed me as I went to get him a drink and then to find Baby. He certainly seemed more content when he woke properly. So I live in hope that he may be pleased to see me next week when I get back. Thank you all for caring. xxx
That's lovely Verity and hopefully lifts your spirits a little . Hug from me too xxxxx


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Cat27

Volunteer Moderator
Feb 27, 2015
11,454
Merseyside
Just to let you know that Fred seemed a bit happier this morning so will go on holiday with a lighter heart. T told me that although his initial reaction to me was NO NO NO, his eyes followed me as I went to get him a drink and then to find Baby. He certainly seemed more content when he woke properly. So I live in hope that he may be pleased to see me next week when I get back. Thank you all for caring. xxx
I'm so pleased for you. Hope you have a lovely holiday xx
 

esmeralda

Registered User
Nov 27, 2014
3,074
Devon
So happy you have this little bit of positive before you go on holiday Verity. It will do you good to get away and have a change, and that will help you to carry on being strong for Fred. Hope he continues to improve and has forgotten his grumpiness when you get back. Lots of love
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 

Jinx

Registered User
Mar 13, 2014
2,333
Pontypool
Hope you have a very enjoyable holiday you deserve it. xxxxxxxxxx


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disi

Registered User
Aug 4, 2014
5,722
Ex pat living in Sweden
Just to let you know that Fred seemed a bit happier this morning so will go on holiday with a lighter heart. T told me that although his initial reaction to me was NO NO NO, his eyes followed me as I went to get him a drink and then to find Baby. He certainly seemed more content when he woke properly. So I live in hope that he may be pleased to see me next week when I get back. Thank you all for caring. xxx
Have just read that Fred seemed a bit brighter, just hold this to your heart Verity and go away for your holiday and enjoy it. Remember it is not Fred it is the disease that is talking. Huge hugs and love xxxxxxxxxxx
 

June the spoon

Registered User
Oct 18, 2015
17
Hugs

Just starting a new thread here as we seem to be enterIng another stage in Fred's life. 3 weeks ago he had a flu injection which resulted in another chest Infection and I believe a sinus Infection too, although he couldn't tell us but the signs were there and he aIways suffered badly with them. Since that time he has reverted to not wanting me near. Although talking to his carers and 'baby' I am totally rejected. T, his lovely team leader, tells me that this last infection has really knocked him for six and that he will recover in time, but will he? His speech is so much worse and, although I understand, his renewed rejection after so many months of lovely visits, is hurtful and I'm in bit of a bad place again. Sorry to whInge but that's why I'm not postIng so often. Am off on a week's holiday with a widowed friend next week so really have to brighten myself up as I don't want to spoil it for her with my worry about my loved one. Can I have a hug please. Thanks for listening. Xx
Oh you poor thing, lots of hugs coming your way, have a lovely holiday x
 

Izzy

Volunteer Moderator
Aug 31, 2003
62,304
69
Dundee
How nice you have a positive in your mind before your holiday.

Merry Christmas. x
 

LadyA

Registered User
Oct 19, 2009
13,604
Ireland
Verity had her hip op at the end of November and is recovering well. :) Unfortunately, she can't drive until Mid January, so won't get a Christmas Day visit to Fred, as she'd have to rely on lifts from friends.
Speedy recovery to speediness, Verity!
 

Jinx

Registered User
Mar 13, 2014
2,333
Pontypool
Verity hope you're on the mend from your hip op and that Fred also improves and can accept you being with him again. Happy Christmas. xxxxx


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Loopiloo

Registered User
May 10, 2010
6,118
Scotland
Have been thinking a lot about you Verity and hoping you are recovering from your hip operation. It takes time, and being ruthless making yourself do the exercises even when it is the last thing you feel like doing. It was also 3months before I was allowed to drive. But that was a while ago and Henry at home in earlier stages of dementia. Good luck.

I hope once you can visit Fred again that you find he has improved and can get back to good visits as before. At least that he does accept you. Awful for you unable to visit but dementia is a strange condition and it is amazing how it can go from bad to better concerning state of mind, moods.

Looking forward to reading your news, when you are ready to come on TP.

I hope Christmas is a good as it can be for you.

Much love
Loo xx
 

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