Dear Magic, know how you feel, although it was hospital not respite with my mum. Not any ones fault they said, can't watch all the time etc. Why not? I did!! It really gets up your nose doesn't it? Is your mum OK, if she is going to be prone to falls, get hip protecters, not sure, but I think there is info on these in resources, if not get back to me and I will do my utmost to dig up some info. I was going to get these for my mum, but the rxxxy hospital not only let herfall 3 times in 5 days, they also messed her up completely and she never walked again before she passed away. I will never get over it. I feel really ****ed off for you, wish I could give you both a hug, can't, so am sending you love and strength instead, love, She. XX