Just reporting back.
Yesterday I went to see the grave of my darling Chrissie for the first time since the funeral a week ago. I did not know how I would be as I am missing her so very much each moment of each day. I still love her deeply. I thought I would be emotional, perhaps tears, angry even, but what happened I still do not understand.
I felt completely empty. Not happy, sad, angry, sorrowful, just nothing. Never have I known such a lack of feeling. I went with my daughter and granddaughter and had a short scripture passage I was going to read. But I did not read it, it would have been wrong with absolutely no feeling. Is this normal to feel so numb? I half expected to go squirrels and be carted of in a funny jacket in a padded van! So far I have not been able to rationalize this lack of feeling after two weeks of constant tears. (Tears are not normally any part of my life. Life has been tough enough for me to learn not to shed them).
This morning here equipment, i.e. Profile bed, rise and recline chair, pressure cushion, commodes, Bed lever, etc, get collected. It might help as I still look for her on her bed or in her chair.
Just needed to express this somewhere it might be understood.