This rang a bell with me too. My husband claims he can bath himself, shave himself, dress himself and wash his hair. As I had just finished doing all these things for him I asked him who had done them. He admitted I had but added - but I let you because you enjoy doing them.He then admitted that I do clean the bathroom. He said he could do it but he lets me because I really enjoy cleaning bathrooms. When my daughter told me what her dad had said all I could do is laugh.
I really know how to enjoy myself, don't I?