Hi,
The other day I was walking the corridors of the care home with my Mum and witnessed a member of staff seeming to spray something on the legs of another resident which seemed to give the resident temporary discomfort. The staff member said to the resident 'you just kicked P' who is a fellow carer.
This resident is strong and they have great difficulty getting her washed and dressed and then her husband turns up and it's not good for him to find her undressed.
I was left feeling rather thrown by this incident. My mother is likely to have increasing behavioural problems. I would want to know if the staff have something like a spray to use (perhaps in self defence) which I have not been told about.
Shortly afterwards her husband turned up with some visitors and I didn't say anything about what just happened as it wasn't exactly light-hearted chit chat and I had no idea if he knew about this spray or indeed whether it was anything other than room freshener.
I intend to raise with a senior whether such a thing is used. If it's not then I'm not intending to talk about the incident in terms of who did what to who. The truth is I am the relative that is frequently raising stuff and whilst I have good relationships with some staff some are wary of me and avoid eye contact with me and I've found that difficult to handle. I know I'm there for my Mum and it's not a popularity contest.
Anyway I'm not really wanting to get into what I speak up about and what I don't but it would help if anyone's heard of them using like a spray in a care home environment as I've never come across it but a care home is an environment where staff are at personal risk.
The other day I was walking the corridors of the care home with my Mum and witnessed a member of staff seeming to spray something on the legs of another resident which seemed to give the resident temporary discomfort. The staff member said to the resident 'you just kicked P' who is a fellow carer.
This resident is strong and they have great difficulty getting her washed and dressed and then her husband turns up and it's not good for him to find her undressed.
I was left feeling rather thrown by this incident. My mother is likely to have increasing behavioural problems. I would want to know if the staff have something like a spray to use (perhaps in self defence) which I have not been told about.
Shortly afterwards her husband turned up with some visitors and I didn't say anything about what just happened as it wasn't exactly light-hearted chit chat and I had no idea if he knew about this spray or indeed whether it was anything other than room freshener.
I intend to raise with a senior whether such a thing is used. If it's not then I'm not intending to talk about the incident in terms of who did what to who. The truth is I am the relative that is frequently raising stuff and whilst I have good relationships with some staff some are wary of me and avoid eye contact with me and I've found that difficult to handle. I know I'm there for my Mum and it's not a popularity contest.
Anyway I'm not really wanting to get into what I speak up about and what I don't but it would help if anyone's heard of them using like a spray in a care home environment as I've never come across it but a care home is an environment where staff are at personal risk.