had a horrible horrendous experience yesterday my dad managed to get back to were he used to live yesterday evening ( not hard as i live over the rd from there )
he lived in a small block of flats for 25 yrs moved 7 yrs ago 3 miles away but i now live across the rd from the block he was completely out of character as he never had much interest before in it but yesterday he was at my place my house and we went to go home by bus got to the bus stop but it was being replaced so had to go a different way after a while got quite aggressive and stormed off shouting saying were we going back in the direction of the old house half mile way by now frogmarched himself back me running after pleading with him he said i was mad he lived in there wouldn’t listen to reason was wild stood outside hes old block for a hour ringing everybody bells asking to be let in shouting ranting saying hes bed was there I couldn’t calm him down in the end despite my best efforts he got in to the block was running up and down stairs kicking banging doors using hes key in doors shouting on the rampage I ended up calling the police and ambulance nothing much was done as he camed down in the back of the ambulance they ended up bringing him to hospital as he heart rate was over the normal rate but because we live in inner London the hospital was packed one of the nurses shouted at me for bringing him there ! He was getting agaited after half hour the nurse saw him hes heart rate had decreased but wanted him to wait to see dr i know I shouldn’t have but decided i would just try and get him hime i was exhausted recovering from flu hadn't eaten all day was the middle of the night no help just sat on chairs in packed waiting room so i just left and called a taxi i know it probably wasnt the sensible thing to do but just couldn’t listen to him moaning all night i hope im
Not going get judged had to do what was best under the circumstances but its coming to end of the line now i think of me looking after my dad i just dont know whats going happen as hes still semi independent im hes full time carer he wont even go to day centre hes 72 fit and healthy apart from dementia ☹️
he lived in a small block of flats for 25 yrs moved 7 yrs ago 3 miles away but i now live across the rd from the block he was completely out of character as he never had much interest before in it but yesterday he was at my place my house and we went to go home by bus got to the bus stop but it was being replaced so had to go a different way after a while got quite aggressive and stormed off shouting saying were we going back in the direction of the old house half mile way by now frogmarched himself back me running after pleading with him he said i was mad he lived in there wouldn’t listen to reason was wild stood outside hes old block for a hour ringing everybody bells asking to be let in shouting ranting saying hes bed was there I couldn’t calm him down in the end despite my best efforts he got in to the block was running up and down stairs kicking banging doors using hes key in doors shouting on the rampage I ended up calling the police and ambulance nothing much was done as he camed down in the back of the ambulance they ended up bringing him to hospital as he heart rate was over the normal rate but because we live in inner London the hospital was packed one of the nurses shouted at me for bringing him there ! He was getting agaited after half hour the nurse saw him hes heart rate had decreased but wanted him to wait to see dr i know I shouldn’t have but decided i would just try and get him hime i was exhausted recovering from flu hadn't eaten all day was the middle of the night no help just sat on chairs in packed waiting room so i just left and called a taxi i know it probably wasnt the sensible thing to do but just couldn’t listen to him moaning all night i hope im
Not going get judged had to do what was best under the circumstances but its coming to end of the line now i think of me looking after my dad i just dont know whats going happen as hes still semi independent im hes full time carer he wont even go to day centre hes 72 fit and healthy apart from dementia ☹️