Hi there,
My dad's been recently diagnosed with Alzheimer's. Mum and I had our suspicions re. memory loss for the last year or so, but after many appointments with docs and specialists it's been confirmed. Mum was hospitalised earlier this year for a short time and I (24 year old, only child who lives about an hour from family home), went home to care for dad. He had what we described as an 'episode' - unable to recognise me, my boyfriend, the house or understand the situation. Diagnosis came quick after that. I was with them both, off work for 4 weeks to support them, but back in work now and seeing them every week.
I've managed to get them some financial support so hopefully they can both retire as mum is dad's full time carer. He's had a number of 'episodes' over the last few months, some worse than others, but he's struggling with recognising home.
They have a caravan which they go to regularly - he's always loved it, but when returning home, he's finding it hard to understand the house he's lived in for 23 years is his. Or when he does recognise it, he feels he's been away for a long time - months or years.
To strangers he presents very well, so we must have caught it early, however there are things you notice and I presume will get worse.
Sorry for the long ramble, I just wondered if anyone could give me any advice? I'm only 24 (going on 25), and at the start of this journey with my family - I know they'll be heavily reliant on me for support (dad is 65 and mum is 62). He's a former journalist and doesn't have a strong social circle so I'm desperate to find things which could occupy his time, even activities in the home.
Thanks if you decide to read all this!
My dad's been recently diagnosed with Alzheimer's. Mum and I had our suspicions re. memory loss for the last year or so, but after many appointments with docs and specialists it's been confirmed. Mum was hospitalised earlier this year for a short time and I (24 year old, only child who lives about an hour from family home), went home to care for dad. He had what we described as an 'episode' - unable to recognise me, my boyfriend, the house or understand the situation. Diagnosis came quick after that. I was with them both, off work for 4 weeks to support them, but back in work now and seeing them every week.
I've managed to get them some financial support so hopefully they can both retire as mum is dad's full time carer. He's had a number of 'episodes' over the last few months, some worse than others, but he's struggling with recognising home.
They have a caravan which they go to regularly - he's always loved it, but when returning home, he's finding it hard to understand the house he's lived in for 23 years is his. Or when he does recognise it, he feels he's been away for a long time - months or years.
To strangers he presents very well, so we must have caught it early, however there are things you notice and I presume will get worse.
Sorry for the long ramble, I just wondered if anyone could give me any advice? I'm only 24 (going on 25), and at the start of this journey with my family - I know they'll be heavily reliant on me for support (dad is 65 and mum is 62). He's a former journalist and doesn't have a strong social circle so I'm desperate to find things which could occupy his time, even activities in the home.
Thanks if you decide to read all this!