Mother is amazingly enthusiastic about a fleecey rug/blanket we got her (£10 on offer in BHS) - she keeps saying how warm and light it is, comparing it to old wool rugs, and how it's so much easier to put it over her knees rather than switching on the electric fire if she feels chilly (and that's a relief as it's so much safer too). Because fleece is something relatively newly invented she finds it a wonderful novelty. (And keeps asking "Where did this come from?", and then "Oh I must owe you a lot of money, you must let me know how much I owe" despite the fact that she's written me a cheque each month of the 22 months we've been here with her).
I think in many cases it would be wise to just buy a tiny present (chocs etc), where nothing else will be appreciated/noticed/remembered, and give whatever money you feel appropriate either to the home's residents activity fund as someone did above, or to Alz Soc to fight the battle on a broad front. But of course, as ever, all the people we are caring for are different, and one size does not fit all.
Pam
I think in many cases it would be wise to just buy a tiny present (chocs etc), where nothing else will be appreciated/noticed/remembered, and give whatever money you feel appropriate either to the home's residents activity fund as someone did above, or to Alz Soc to fight the battle on a broad front. But of course, as ever, all the people we are caring for are different, and one size does not fit all.
Pam