I had a really compassionate mental health nurse who was by our side the last 18 months,I'll be forever grateful to her
❤️A blessing. I had the same. The pain is still there but it`s so good to get that level of support.
❤️I’m absolutely delighted that you got the outcome you needed and wanted. It’s uplifting to know that there are professionals out there who have empathy towards carers of PWD.
I had the support of an admiral nurse for a very short time when my husband was in a care home. Apparently, they are not able to 'reach' into the care home and are not able to support carer's if the PWD is not living with them. It may be worth checking though, as it may be different in other areas.maybe worth chatting to CAB or age uk or admiral nurses. some one has the knowledge of what you are entitled to. pension credit is another maybe. you need to find out more.
can i ask of other members, do alz.soc. or admiral nurses still support the carer when their PWD has gone into care?or is there another organisation specifically for this?
I am so sorry, as if you haven't been through enough. As others have said you will still get the 25% discount on council tax, half of any private pension that your husband receives, and may be eligible for pension credit. Age UK and CAB will be able to advise you better, but I share your fears, the fallout from dementia just goes on and on. I don't have a private pension and will have to carry on working part time until I drop. I've dealt with my husbands debts for 5 years, abuse and aggression, and face financial hardship as I slip into old age - I never thought it would end like this. It is little consolation but you are not alone ........Well I've come to accept he'll never come home and now I've had time to think.I'm now realising that part of the PIP benefit will stop,I don't know if ESA or the council tax discount will stop,whether I'll get help as a single pensioner with hardly any savings(they got used up in the 18 months waiting for a diagnosis)how will I manage? Oh my it never ends😱
❤️I’m absolutely delighted that you got the outcome you needed and wanted. It’s uplifting to know that there are professionals out there who have empathy towards carers of PWD.
❤️I am so sorry, as if you haven't been through enough. As others have said you will still get the 25% discount on council tax, half of any private pension that your husband receives, and may be eligible for pension credit. Age UK and CAB will be able to advise you better, but I share your fears, the fallout from dementia just goes on and on. I don't have a private pension and will have to carry on working part time until I drop. I've dealt with my husbands debts for 5 years, abuse and aggression, and face financial hardship as I slip into old age - I never thought it would end like this. It is little consolation but you are not alone ........