Ah, missing combs. When I cleared out my mother's flat I found a lot of stuff in general, and definitely a lot of hair care items, including brushes, combs, hair mousse, and multiple hair dryers and curling irons (at least six of those). In the care home last week, I found an extra hair brush in my mother's bathroom! No idea where that came from!!
Hang in there, Sam.
Could wherever you put the keys, handbag, et cetera, have a big color photo of the item plus a label, nearby? You can blame it on you not being able to remember where things go. It might not help, but it might not hurt. I have found with my mother that open shelving--having things in plain sight--is often the key. She frequently can't "see" something if it's in a drawer, a bin, or behind a cabinet door.
Hi Amy in the US
When I was up & down the road (180 miles) every weekend I woukd take mum shopping & every week it was shampoo, conditioner, body lotion & shower gel, every time I woukd ask if she was sure & every time I got told they had run out
When I moved in, I emptied the bathroom cupboard & put in an extra shelf. I then showed her the 14 bottles of shampoo, 12 bottles of conditioner etc. It's been a year & we still have plenty left!
Combs & hand cream are the new shampoo & conditioner IYKWIM. I know the dog has taken a liking to emery boards (nail files), so she does go through those, but I've yet to find where the combs go. The hand cream will be on shelves all over the place, kitchen, bathroom, window sill in the lounge
Thank the laud for £land
Keys are on top open shelf of a Dutch Dresser. Mine are there too, so I just want one place to look. Bag is "supposed" to be on the back of her chair, but she drops it on the stairs, in the lounge by her chair, banisters at the top of the stairs, basically wherever she happens to be when she decides to out it down. She has always been like it. It's driven us mad as a family for ever, so now I just collect these things & put them where they are "supposed" to be so at least I can find them
The strange thing is, she has always been pretty ok with shoes, not ideal to my mind, but she puts them on the stairs. A pair on each riser. I've gotten used to that & carefully avoid them. However,
she has started leaving them everywhere & I've almost tripped 20 or 30 times in the last 6 weeks
On the plus side. Mum is in a pretty good mood, not snapping at me & I've only been called "bossy" once this week & that was with a smile
I might see what rubbish is on the TV and have a lazy evening with her
. Might as well enjoy it while I still can, as some posts lead me to understand this will not always be an option
Sam