Cleaner is looking like an excellent idea especially in the male form
Bit of eye candy.......still then again too exhausted to be bothered lol.
Aw Margi sorry to read about your lovely Mum how are you going to cope with family and your work as well, it doesn't get any easier does it.
Slugsta what a shame there doesn't seem to be a neighbally feel in your complex Sams' idea for drinks in the New Year seems a good one maybe worth a try.
I'm just about getting Mum to singing for the brain. Mum never wants to go out now it's hard getting her into the car as she isn't very mobile now and unless the songs are familiar to Mum she gets anxious and wants to leave then when we get home I have trouble getting her back into the house as she doesn't recognise it even though she has lived in it for 32 years.Such a shame if we have to stop it's the only time anything Mum says makes sense when she's singing!!!
Sam you deserve a medal trying to mediate between two people with dementia
and you must be the neighbour of the year
We haven't had any snow here but boy has it been cold so been wrapping Mum up in her heated blanket, central heating on full blast feels like the tropics inside and poor Mum bless her will still say she's cold.
The last 2 nights Mum has also had a wee in her pad she's never done that before she's always fidgeted so I've known to get her up and onto the commode so unless I'm prompting Mum and taking her to the loo she is now doubly incontinent
I think the phase your Mum is going through Sam is quite daunting knowing enough to know that things arn't right and not able to do all she could it must feel so overwhelming for her I think that's when a bit of depression can set in. Keep on with your hugs your Mum will be needing them.
Just watching Nino De'campo the Italian chef on tv it's made me feel hungry so I'm off into the kitchen to see what I can have.
Goodnight everyone
