Hi
my nan had a memory nurse out last week, and they have called my sister today with the expected news. nan scored 52/100, which having read some information is very low. We now wait for the appointment for the CT scan. Nan doesn't know yet, and I am going to have to tell her tonight which I am obviously not looking forward to. She is going to be devastated, but will struggle with a few things I think. Firstly her driving license - this is her total independence and not being able to drive will cause her serious additional mental issues (my sister is going to notify the DVLA she is being investigated tomorrow and nan will need to notify her insurance). Secondly - her older brother has Alzheimer's so can see what she has coming.
The positive things I'm going to highlight to her are that she has a mobility scooter. She needs to start using it to go to the shops, there is no reason for her to be "stuck in". I am currently staying with her while my house purchase is going through, so she is not on her own and I can take her places. If she wants to visit her brother, I can take her on the weekends. We are moving to be closer to my sister and mum (her daughter in law), and nan is also going to be selling her place and moving, so she will have more people who can do things with her. I am now concerned though that somewhere on her own is not a good idea, and perhaps somewhere with assisted living but where she can be independent still is going to be more suitable.
Nothing is for certain yet, so she will need to wait for her official diagnosis which I guess will give her a bit of hope. I had printed out the Power of Attorney forms last week, but I think I need to time the approach for that because I don't want her thinking we are taking every bit of independence from her.
Is there anything I need to be prepared for? I know there will probably be some sort of depression and I am even expecting a reaction of something like "there is no point in me eating" etc
my nan had a memory nurse out last week, and they have called my sister today with the expected news. nan scored 52/100, which having read some information is very low. We now wait for the appointment for the CT scan. Nan doesn't know yet, and I am going to have to tell her tonight which I am obviously not looking forward to. She is going to be devastated, but will struggle with a few things I think. Firstly her driving license - this is her total independence and not being able to drive will cause her serious additional mental issues (my sister is going to notify the DVLA she is being investigated tomorrow and nan will need to notify her insurance). Secondly - her older brother has Alzheimer's so can see what she has coming.
The positive things I'm going to highlight to her are that she has a mobility scooter. She needs to start using it to go to the shops, there is no reason for her to be "stuck in". I am currently staying with her while my house purchase is going through, so she is not on her own and I can take her places. If she wants to visit her brother, I can take her on the weekends. We are moving to be closer to my sister and mum (her daughter in law), and nan is also going to be selling her place and moving, so she will have more people who can do things with her. I am now concerned though that somewhere on her own is not a good idea, and perhaps somewhere with assisted living but where she can be independent still is going to be more suitable.
Nothing is for certain yet, so she will need to wait for her official diagnosis which I guess will give her a bit of hope. I had printed out the Power of Attorney forms last week, but I think I need to time the approach for that because I don't want her thinking we are taking every bit of independence from her.
Is there anything I need to be prepared for? I know there will probably be some sort of depression and I am even expecting a reaction of something like "there is no point in me eating" etc