Hi, it’s been a couple of months since I posted here and Nan has been in a fantastic care home for 9 weeks, on the locked side to prevent wandering. She’s been very happy there and seems to have come out of her shell, settled very quickly, but she thinks she’s been there for a week and is staying for a couple more weeks.
Recently the staff have suggested moving her to the non-locked side, to a bigger room with a patio, and we agree that this would be good for her as she doesn’t seem to be a wandering risk. But soon we need to break the news to her that the move to the care home is permanent, as the social worker is going to sign her off soon. How do we break this news to her when she still thinks it’s just for a break and she’ll be coming home in a few weeks? She will forget within a day or maybe even an hour, but in the moment she’ll understand.
Thanks
Recently the staff have suggested moving her to the non-locked side, to a bigger room with a patio, and we agree that this would be good for her as she doesn’t seem to be a wandering risk. But soon we need to break the news to her that the move to the care home is permanent, as the social worker is going to sign her off soon. How do we break this news to her when she still thinks it’s just for a break and she’ll be coming home in a few weeks? She will forget within a day or maybe even an hour, but in the moment she’ll understand.
Thanks