Hello all
I’ve found that it comforts me a little when I read posts on here that describe people with dementia displaying behaviours and obsessions that I recognise in the PWD I care for. Somehow it makes me feel less alone. We spend all our waking hours trying to understand and interpret our PWD’s needs and thoughts and it is not easy.
With that in mind I wondered if it would be useful to start a thread with our experiences so that carers can post and/or read in case it helps in any way?
I am full time carer to my PWD who has Vascular Dementia.
Some common behaviours and obsessions displayed:
What we are doing is so, so hard. Like living nightmare. I send you all much love and wish you all the best.
I’ve found that it comforts me a little when I read posts on here that describe people with dementia displaying behaviours and obsessions that I recognise in the PWD I care for. Somehow it makes me feel less alone. We spend all our waking hours trying to understand and interpret our PWD’s needs and thoughts and it is not easy.
With that in mind I wondered if it would be useful to start a thread with our experiences so that carers can post and/or read in case it helps in any way?
I am full time carer to my PWD who has Vascular Dementia.
Some common behaviours and obsessions displayed:
- Wrapping wallet, keys and important things in kitchen towel
- When an unknown car or van parks outside, my PWD is very troubled and will keep looking at it and get stressed
- Anything not in its normal place is a cause of stress
- Opening the front door and standing on the drive. Multiple, multiple times day and night.
- Gets upset when it is dark (usually as my PWD is up at all hours, doesn’t understand time or that it is night and does not seem to sleep. Is up and dressed multiple times during night). This is not boding terribly well as we approach winter
- Bit obsessed with the neighbours who are our friends - always wants to know where they are and what they are doing
- Puts dirty dishes, cups and cutlery away in drawers
- Reluctant to go in shower or change clothes
What we are doing is so, so hard. Like living nightmare. I send you all much love and wish you all the best.