It will make a change to stick in labels instead of pads, .
Lol!
What am I going to do with all that double sided tape?!
It will make a change to stick in labels instead of pads, .
When I visited dad yesterday he thought I had come to take him home
Thanks guys. I went to the bungalow today with the intention of clearing a room. I managed a cupboard!! I have to do better. Dad needs the rent money!!
I'm never going to tell him he can't go home but it feels so wrong...I know you understand
I've got rid of his bed but can't get the sofa out of the room . How did he get it in...?
I'm still waiting for the result of the financial assessment but I have got some way with clearing dad's bungalow. Frustratingly though his furniture which I'd arranged to be picked up by a certain heart charity on Thursday has still not been moved as I didn't receive the promised phone call to tell me that they were on their way so I've just had a note pushed through the letterbox... Got to try again on Monday now. I can think of better ways to spend a Monday afternoon than sitting in dad's bungalow waiting for a driver who doesn't know how to make a phone call .
I'm feeling very down and guilty because dad is in the Carehome. He's refusing to join in with the activities on offer and prefers to spend all his time in his room - doing nothing and engaging with no-one. I'm feeling guilty because I think I should visit more often and make sure he isn't bored, but when I get there he just sits there with his eyes closed...and I want to leave...
I'm seriously considering taking one of the bunnies with me so I have someone to talk to
It was better when he was in the lounge - at least I had some sort of interaction with people. It seems that dad has gone...
I had exactly the same experience with the heart charity when mum moved into her Assisted living last year. I waited in from 7am on a Saturday till their final arrival at 9pm (after several steadily angrier calls from me). On arrival the guys could not have been grumpier if they tried.
I too struggle to engage with mum now and, like you there are times I just want to leave. It makes me so sad