Alan was enjoying it and even though I felt I ought to have gone along with it, I somehow feel resistance at the same time.
I know what you mean about " resistance " mum had loads of other delusion about other thing , I use to try so hard to get my mother to perceive it my way . That I see too much sadness in mum eyes , When it somehow click that somehow she got it wrong , but can’t understand why. . So unless mum delusion put her in danger, I don't try to get mum to perceive it my way, because now days mum can't find lot of comfort in life, Oh yes lots of hugs kisses from me , but that all .
If a delusion give her comfort I let her keep it, but now I never encourage it, because mum won't drop it and it does my head in , as there only so much I take from living in mum delusional word , I mean that in a nice way .
When my mother had a stage of “The 3 man “I let my mother watch it 24/7 on video. If she was not watching it she would not talk or connect to me, she come alive when that film was on, so as it gave her some comfort I let mum watch it all day, the only time she would not watch it was when she fall asleep. I never understood what was happing to mum back then; it only stops because we moved abroad. I never took the Video with us. Mum had other things going on in her life to distract her from watching TV or Video all day
Now the TV has no meaning to my mother, mum just makes comment of how strange ugly people look on TV. As long as mum can hear music or radio on see movement on TV with TV volume down, mum contented to be in a room on her own, without wondering where I am in the house.