he will have to accept where he is and what he has, and he will lose all hope.
I use to think that also that mum would lose all hope when in day center , because it make her release that they was something wrong with her as she be mixing with people that are like her with AZ or are worse then her , and my mother was never a person that like being with people other then her family unit .
Sylvia in your situation with your husband if you don't try it your never going to find out, because if your truthfull with yourself that is your
perception of day center and your husband giving up hope , unless you have ask him and he said that , like with me that how I perceived it with my mother now mum has something else to think about , some thing to complain about and sometime share her good moment in what happen in day-center she love going now
D `No. It`s because I haven`t got true Alzheimers.
make me wonder that if taking . Dhiren to memory clinic all the time is what is making him feel more negative about himself as its a reminder , if his always been negative then going to memory clinic is going to make him more negative about himself .
you going with Dhiren to day center staying for a while , then saying your just popping out to shop , or staff coming up with a good idea in how to keep him they without you
, seem the next stage for you both and so what if it does not work , at lest you can look back and say will I gave it a go.
Now hoping I have not put my foot in it , and offered you with anything I have said