Thank you so much for all your kind thoughts.
Dhiren isn`t too bad but still in pyjamas and chesty. He only ate a few spoonfuls of lunch but did finish the fruit jelly and ice cream. He is on a different antibiotic, a capsule he has to take once a day. It`s difficult for him to swallow it but the home managed to get it down him this morning.
The lady he sits next to is also on antibiotics. She has a hacking cough. The home is ripe for cross infection but there is little I can do about it. Residents sit in close proximity, touch each others` things, leave tissues about the place even though they are quickly removed by staff and of course it`s kept warmer than average.
While I was feeding him his lunch, he suddenly screwed both eyes tightly and if in pain and they watered. He wasn`t crying, the grimace on his face showed he was in pain. One of the carers called a senior carer over and we both sat and observed him. The carer suggested we call the doctor. I wiped his eyes very gently and he shouted at me as if I`d been really clumsy and hurt him.
The carer wondered if he had poked himself in the eye. She said he does it occasionally. It`s something I haven`t seen him do but thinking about it, he does rub his eyes quite a lot and perhaps his loss of spatial awareness and poor coordination causes him to miss his target.
It passed, his expression calmed and he said it didn`t hurt and he didn`t need a doctor so the carer said they would keep him under observation. My first thought was conjunctivitis but as Dhiren has red eyes anyway it`s difficult to know.
Anyway he slept and seemed comfortable so all`s well for now.