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[susiesue]

Dear Sylvia

I do wish you luck for tomorrow - I'm sure it won't be easy but you really do need a rest.

I will be thinking of you.

Love

 

[janlyn]

dear sylvia,
i was so sad to read your thread today i have just cought up on how you have been, i am glad that you are geting respite you have been wonderfull for dhiren , please listen to what helen wrote in her post she is a wise lady as im sure you are. you both give so much,its time to recharge yourself and keep strong sending you love and hugs wish i could do more xx

 

[Bookworm]

Dear Sylvia,........he had the proper care, I walked out..........and let it all go. Tonight is the first night...........It has not broken my heart to leave him. I am pleased that he is safe, well and in a proper place.There is no way that I would ever allow myself to be put in a situation without proper support in place again. My support was excellent and even then it wasn't good enough when I really needed it!!!......place Dhiren in the best place, with good enough support and then sigh a sigh of relief and walk away and recover.

All I can do is echo Helen's words - & isn't it lovely to see her back......Jan is right you are both very wise and your time has come Sylvia, just as it has had to for Helen....xx

 

[donkey]

im thinking of you sylvia and sending you the courage and strengh to let someone else do the caring for a while sending a big hug xxxx

 

[DeborahBlythe]

Sending you love and best wishes, Sylvia, and a big ole hug.

 

[Izzy]

I will be thinking of you tomorrow. Izzy x

 

[Grannie G]

Dhiren is still up and knows something is worrying me as he keeps asking if i`m all right.

I have gone against all that has been spoken and told him I`m not all right, I`m very worried about him and he must go into a convalescent home so I can get help and advice to look after him.

I`ve told him about sundowning , going home, not knowing me, and I`ve told him about the broken nights and worrying about him falling. I told him I`m worried he is not eating and losing too much weight. I told him he can believe or not believe what I say, it makes no difference, he is going away for a week.

He agrees.

I don`t know who will be helping me tomorrow. It will be either the care home or the Care Agency.

 

[Helen33]

I wish we had a helicopter so that I could be with you!!

Love

 

[Skye]

Sylvia, you may well have done the right thing.

Obviously I don't know Dhiren personally. but from your posts he has always come across as a very caring person, when not in the grip of sundowning.

Letting him know he is doing this for you may just give him the validation he so badly needs.

I do hope so, for both your sakes. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.

Love,

 

[Scottie45]

Dear Sylvia

Wishing you all the best for tomorrow,will be thinking of you both,take care Marian xx

 

[burfordthecat]

Sylvia

I hope that things have calmed for you tonight. I will be thinking about you and Dhiren tomorrow and hoping that it all goes smoothly.

Love and hugs to you both

Carina x x

 

[Nan2seven]

Dear Sylvia - Wishing you a peaceful night and a smooth day tomorrow.
Sending love,
Nan XXX

 

[larivy]

Sylvia hope you get some sleep tonight and that every thing goes well tomorrow (the offer is still there) love Larivy

 

[Sandy]

Dear Sylvia,

I hope all goes as smoothly as possible tomorrow.

I remember the day we moved my MIL into her care home and I just kept thinking "This too shall pass".

Take care,

 

[Grannie G]

Here we are again, me on TP and Dhiren asleep in the chair.

He told me three times he didn`t want to get up and each time his legs needed putting back in bed. The third time was once again, nearly a 999 callout.

 

[DMWalker]

Sylvia,

I hope you get some much needed help and rest very soon. I'm worn out with Dave but he's quite a long way to go to get to Dhiren's stage, in truth I am dreading it.

Much love to you,

Dee

 

[Grannie G]

Thanks Dee. Don`t leave it until your own health is threatened. xx

 

[janlyn]

morning sylvia,
hope you had a good night and that you get the support you need today,i will be sending you lots of possative thoughts wish i could do more xx

 

[Grannie G]

Thanks Jan. xx

 

[susiesue]

Good Luck Sylvia - my thoughts are with you.

Love