My wife is distraught, I am distraught (in different ways)
She is scared and confused, I am angry and emotional
I can not do anything this evening, for the sake of her feelings
I will have to put my life on hold for now as a husband or wife should
I will ring social services in the morning, I promise, not only for her but for my well being
I have suffered a great deal over the past 2 years and am sure that 1 more night will not hurt me
I fell really sorry for my understanding Son, he came home with his girlfriend and immediately wanted to show my is toy helicopter that his girlfriend bought him for his birthday but my wife could not leave them alone, I felt angry, my Son felt "its all happening again to my Dad" and his girlfriend felt awkward
Son was in a 3 piece suit for the first time ever, girlfriend looked spectacular and all they wanted was for me to take a few photos of them looking their best, no matter how I said to OH to leave the kids 20 / 23 alone (don't spoil the moment) it was all about her, her needs, her anguish and wanted to be the center of attention.
I will call SS in the morning and say that I need help, obviously family members can not cope for more than 2 days but I have had to put up with this for years
Oh yes, nearly forgot, I will post the text messages (exactly as written) that I received this afternoon from my wife's daughter, let me bring them up and write them word for word, will take me about 20 minutes or so
She is scared and confused, I am angry and emotional
I can not do anything this evening, for the sake of her feelings
I will have to put my life on hold for now as a husband or wife should
I will ring social services in the morning, I promise, not only for her but for my well being
I have suffered a great deal over the past 2 years and am sure that 1 more night will not hurt me
I fell really sorry for my understanding Son, he came home with his girlfriend and immediately wanted to show my is toy helicopter that his girlfriend bought him for his birthday but my wife could not leave them alone, I felt angry, my Son felt "its all happening again to my Dad" and his girlfriend felt awkward
Son was in a 3 piece suit for the first time ever, girlfriend looked spectacular and all they wanted was for me to take a few photos of them looking their best, no matter how I said to OH to leave the kids 20 / 23 alone (don't spoil the moment) it was all about her, her needs, her anguish and wanted to be the center of attention.
I will call SS in the morning and say that I need help, obviously family members can not cope for more than 2 days but I have had to put up with this for years
Oh yes, nearly forgot, I will post the text messages (exactly as written) that I received this afternoon from my wife's daughter, let me bring them up and write them word for word, will take me about 20 minutes or so
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