Thank you so much everyone for your kind thoughts. I’m slowly coming out of the shock of dad going so quickly. Although I knew I could happen anytime I still wasn’t ready. Are we ever.
In a way it’s a relief as I’ve been watching him fade and I was beginning to think it would probably happen on Christmas Eve or day. It was going to be a miserable Christmas anyway having to visit what was the shell of my dad who was obviously getting very little pleasure out of life.
I can remember him how he used to be now, when he was well, without having to make painful visits to someone who merely looked like my dad but wasn’t really “dad” if you understand what I mean.
I’m still tearful when I think of never being able to see him again but I know we were lucky really that he went the way he did.
The way he wanted to go.
I’ve had a call from the coroners this afternoon. They’re not doing an autopsy and will be informing the registrar of his death just as you said @love.dad.but.. I have to pick up his death certificate from the GP and then phone to make an appointment to get the registration. It’s probably too late now to get in until after Christmas.
I rang the undertakers yesterday so they will make the arrangements to collect dad from hospital. Dad has a funeral plan so I’ll stick to it as closely as possible. I just have to choose the music and decide what I’d like them to say at the service.
One day at a time...
In a way it’s a relief as I’ve been watching him fade and I was beginning to think it would probably happen on Christmas Eve or day. It was going to be a miserable Christmas anyway having to visit what was the shell of my dad who was obviously getting very little pleasure out of life.
I can remember him how he used to be now, when he was well, without having to make painful visits to someone who merely looked like my dad but wasn’t really “dad” if you understand what I mean.
I’m still tearful when I think of never being able to see him again but I know we were lucky really that he went the way he did.
The way he wanted to go.
I’ve had a call from the coroners this afternoon. They’re not doing an autopsy and will be informing the registrar of his death just as you said @love.dad.but.. I have to pick up his death certificate from the GP and then phone to make an appointment to get the registration. It’s probably too late now to get in until after Christmas.
I rang the undertakers yesterday so they will make the arrangements to collect dad from hospital. Dad has a funeral plan so I’ll stick to it as closely as possible. I just have to choose the music and decide what I’d like them to say at the service.
One day at a time...
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