We're still here, but things still very up and down.
The CHC funding assessment was supposed to be today, however the nurse at the home requested fast track as she believes my mum is now deteriorating quickly. This was done BUT on the wrong form! (You couldn't make it up, could you?!) so we were sat on the meeting (online) waiting to find out if Fast track would be granted or if we'd have to do the assessment. They decided after a while they would cancel the assessment and it's assumed Fast Track will be granted now, until the end of March (at which point we may have to do the assessment if Mum is stable-ish). Doesn't everything to do with this stuff seem so needlessly complicated?
My mum is eating/drinking very little now. My dad has some success, the nursing home staff say she's not swallowing, just holding food in her mouth. Same with medication, although again my dad can get her to take pills okay.
Tomorrow my dad will be going to hospital for a lung operation on Friday. He'll have to be in hospital at least 3 days but could be up to 7 or maybe longer depending on how he recovers. I'm dreading something happening to mum while he's in hospital.