Update!!!
OH‘s general health is continuing to fail but we still have not had a cross word for months. He likes to grab a wine and talk before we go to bed and so now I am having a few late nights. We talk about all sorts of things and I take to opportunity to pry into what he recalls of his childhood and his parents.
It has been a very interesting experience, as He really doesn’t remember much about growing up and even getting him to talk of his dad didn’t tell me much. It seems so odd because I have vivid memories of my life as a little child. My mother died when I was four, so being the youngest of 5, I just tagged along with my older siblings and joined in with whatever they were up to, and looking back we had freedom like you wouldn‘t believe.
The really odd thing is this newly acquired need for communication Is an opportunity for us to get to know each other again.
These late night chats are developing into something he seems to need and I have to admit that it has helped us find a connection again.
OH‘s general health is continuing to fail but we still have not had a cross word for months. He likes to grab a wine and talk before we go to bed and so now I am having a few late nights. We talk about all sorts of things and I take to opportunity to pry into what he recalls of his childhood and his parents.
It has been a very interesting experience, as He really doesn’t remember much about growing up and even getting him to talk of his dad didn’t tell me much. It seems so odd because I have vivid memories of my life as a little child. My mother died when I was four, so being the youngest of 5, I just tagged along with my older siblings and joined in with whatever they were up to, and looking back we had freedom like you wouldn‘t believe.
The really odd thing is this newly acquired need for communication Is an opportunity for us to get to know each other again.
These late night chats are developing into something he seems to need and I have to admit that it has helped us find a connection again.