Hello
@Jacqueli52 . I'm sorry to hear that your mum fell and broke her hip. Hospital is not a great place to be with dementia at the best of times and surgery can make existing dementia worse, although this can be temporary. Do you know how your mum is doing in hospital?
I'm afraid that losing possessions is par for the course in most care-homes. Residents pick up other resident's glasses and things seem to get lost in the laundry or are used by other residents despite being labelled. Residents are often dressed in a hurry without the carer being aware of the plans for the day. Unfortunately, residents can fall when there is nobody looking too. It's not ideal, I know. Many care homes have cameras installed but not all areas will be included.
I'm not sure anything you have mentioned would be classed as neglect, although I'm not a lawyer, and of course it's up to you and your family how you want to proceed. Taking legal action could make things pretty awkward if you plan to return your mum to the same care home after her hospital stay though.
I hope your mum is doing ok after her surgery.