My daughter has upset me a bit. I’ve an invite from my granddaughter to a family dinner of people i know only briefly. I said i’ll see. My daughter is pushing and pressuring me to go.Peter, I’m not sure it’s even possible to get this nailed down and I so wish I could help. Just to say that and with you in spirit. I got and get by through constantly saying to myself, grief is normal, grief is normal. I live every day with a smile as my mission is to cheer others, but my heart is broken. Only my friends on this forum know that. With you and grateful for your posts. With love Geraldinexxxxx
She wants me to move on, get out of my so called comfort zone of what i do regularly and i’ve told her not to push me. My comfort zone is there as a defence against upset. Why do people want me to move on? Why can’t i do things at my own pace? Anticipatory grief takes its toll and people like us on the forum know only too well the privacy and loneliness of the upset
Thank kindred. Your always there with comforting comments
Peter