When you begin to think 'how did I do the impossible'?
thats a nice card and unique one offThanks Rachael 🥰🥰 I’m glad my posts have been good to read. I do love that this site gives you a chance to offload, seek support and help others.
I had a chuckle today when the existing care home phoned me in a panic that mum was refusing to get up for her assessment. I think they wanted her nicely dressed and presented for another care home manager 🤣🤣 After being assured she was well, just refusing I said leave her be……if she wants to stay in bed ….then that’s fine ….she has stayed there all day but is on good form tonight and has walked again so it’s served her well. I do think she benefits from less stimulation.
Anyway the new care home manager said they had a lovely chat and so mum will move on Monday. I am sad that this one is big but I will go in again on Saturday to check out the lounge areas on her floor as I didn’t take them in during my visit earlier in the week. It would be nice for her to get to know a few faces….
Found her sat in wee tonight which wasn’t good. Annoyingly it was handover so we had to wait ages for help. I know I shouldnt do their job for them but I did get her out of wet clothes as wasn’t leaving her like that.
She’s chosen to do sticker Christmas cards this year …so there will be a selection of wonky nativity scenes working their way across the country 🤣🤣🤣
I got my Mental health first aid course done - more a paper exercise as I know the stuff - but need it for CV as I would like to move into mental health / well-being training perhaps …..
Must be extremely difficult for you @sdmhredWell any doubt I have has been banished now. Mum has stayed in bed all day ….which is fine…but she is sat in a soaking pad and her speech is all over the place ….she has hardly had fluids all day and has just had loads with me so was clearly thirsty and dehydrated from her perspective…
Anyway they are going to check for uti at my request ….if we can get a sample.
I always knew this stage was going to be difficult
I say it again I banked 2 good years of care in mid stage dementia which is an achievement for us both!!
they dont like moving people if there is a covid outbreakOk so there is now covid in mums place….plan off I expect!
does your mum have to be tested?Move is going ahead which I am slightly astonished by!
I think it is so endemic in care homes with large number of asymptomatics that some homes simply accept its presence.Clearly out of my hands but I wouldn’t want it to be spread.