Ooh I'd go bonkers me, I do not appreciate anyone telling me what to do where mum is concerned 😡 However I'm fortunate that mum is still at home and those involved in her care basically leave us alone unless we decide advice/extra input is needed. Difficult situation for you and your mum though @sdmhred having to abide by somebody else's rules... I just wouldn't be able to do it!Turning quite farcical - my brother invites me back to make the peace but then the home say she can’t have so many visitors as protected meal time…..so off I am sent for the second time in a day 🙈🙈
Im all for protected meal times but does that mean we can never share a meal together again? 😢😢😢 eating together as a family is very importsnt to us 😢😢😢 I guess I will have to ask permission if we are allowed a picnic in her room …or make sure we have one before the 5pm supper time 😬😬
Gosh having dementia is the pits some time😢😢
Have had to navigate that particular family dynamic too many times, I just grin (grimace) and bear it now. My expectations are low so it doesn't duly affect me as much anymore; as I saved all my patience and tolerance for mum (for which I have no problem) I did not suffer fools gladly