My mum’s recently diagnosed with mixed dementia. My dad died suddenly and unexpectedly last year and my mum lives 100 miles from family. We realised immediately that she had serious memory problems and she’s had a live in carer since. She hates being in her home (which she doesn’t recognise despite living there for 30 years), is very lonely and desperate to live near family.
We found her a lovely flat in a retirement village nearby but her condition has deteriorated and we don’t feel she will be able to cope with just drop in support. The village has a dementia care home on site and they’ve suggested we consider that. It feels too soon but she is keen and desperate for friends and company. Even finding the flat took over 6 months so I am reasoning that by the time the care home place comes up, she’s going to be more dependent than she is now.
I am worried about how she’ll react to the reality of the care home setting.
What have others done in this situation?
Any experiences of a loved one moving into a care home in a lovely dementia focused village a bit early?
We found her a lovely flat in a retirement village nearby but her condition has deteriorated and we don’t feel she will be able to cope with just drop in support. The village has a dementia care home on site and they’ve suggested we consider that. It feels too soon but she is keen and desperate for friends and company. Even finding the flat took over 6 months so I am reasoning that by the time the care home place comes up, she’s going to be more dependent than she is now.
I am worried about how she’ll react to the reality of the care home setting.
What have others done in this situation?
Any experiences of a loved one moving into a care home in a lovely dementia focused village a bit early?