I am in a position that i now need to find work to secure the future for myself. On reading some of the other threads when my husband goes into care it looks like i will be left with nothing to live of. I have 18years before i am of retirement age then what? This worries me greatly. What will happen to my husband if i do get work? I can't even get respite or go on holiday due to lack of care places. I hope i don't seem thoughtless but after having Dementia in the family 2 uncles mother, mother-in-law and now my husband No holidays for 7years. Its telling on me. Do i work or not. Will i have anything to life with?