After placing my beloved husband in care last October, apart from the emotional pain, I've suffered 2 broken wrists and been undecided about what the next step should be. Initially, I didn't want to leave the home where we have lived these past 20 years, but now, my need to be physically closer to him than I currently am is so strong, I am placing our home on the market today so I can buy in the same town he is in. Moving him is out of the question as there are no homes any closer that I would be satisfied with. He is happy where he is and I feel moving him if it was possible, might quite probably have a negative impact on him. I've had to look at all the pros and cons. Right now I am still able to handle such a huge upheaval, but a few years down the track I might not be able to. There's my eyesight to consider and it would be devastating if I left things the way they are, should I lose my driver's licence in a couple of years due to eye problems. So, please wish me luck! I will keep you posted.