I've just been really irritable with my mam and feel terrible. Why can't I stay calm? She has only recently been diagnosed but I already feel like I can't do this (we share the house she owns so I've kind of fallen into the role of carer). She's been really difficult to live with for about a year; so much so that my depression meds have been increased and I'm now on beta blockers for anxiety. What is wrong with me and why can't I cope?
Hi!
Your human and caring thats the trouble..and like yourself..eventhough i dont live with my dad..i woke up one morning and life had slapped a great R on the end of the fact i care for my dad..and dah da!!! I was a carer!!!
I know lots of people will be saying ..you wouldnt have things any other way!...i suppose that i would always have cared for him...but would take time out and not have to feel selfish when asking others to help out..just to have a break!
If theres one thing i could say to help is...you dont ask you dont get!..people wont offer...and you must have time for you....its essential to your wellbeing..!
Get a sitter in get the power of attorneys sorted asap..living together will be hard on times..and easier on times
Get a social service assessment for your mum and you as a carer..you might not need help now...or want it..but without the communication further help in the future will be harder!
I am sorry that youre having to go through this due to this disease...just dont forget you matter too...and keep talking on talking point..dont keep it all hidden ..
Best wishes
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