Hi Panda
You really do have your work cut out, don`t you. It sounds to me as if you`re meeting yourself coming backwards.
Just try to calm yourself and take stock. You are doing your very best, no-one could expect you to do more.
It`s a good idea to try to find a home in an area that your mother`s not too familiar with.
As far as your aunt is concerned, if she`s so interested, let her find a suitable home for your mum and let her ask you to inspect it.
You do what you`re doing best, looking after the best interests of your mum. But don`t forget to look after yourself too.
Take care
You really do have your work cut out, don`t you. It sounds to me as if you`re meeting yourself coming backwards.
Just try to calm yourself and take stock. You are doing your very best, no-one could expect you to do more.
It`s a good idea to try to find a home in an area that your mother`s not too familiar with.
As far as your aunt is concerned, if she`s so interested, let her find a suitable home for your mum and let her ask you to inspect it.
You do what you`re doing best, looking after the best interests of your mum. But don`t forget to look after yourself too.
Take care