For days Pauline has spent hours just gazing out of the window in silence then yesterday she phoned two of her three sons and left messages (a bit garbled but understandable) but calls haven’t been returned nor of course visits made. She asks me over and over, “ why doesn’t anyone phone me?” And thinks the virus may have got them. So bloody sad cruel and soul destroying and there is nothing I can say or do to help as I know it is me they have fallen out with but her they are punishing.