My friend is now settled in care home. When I was visiting her last week she said my name and that she wished that I would come to see her. This is very upsetting but I wonder how often I should visit as clearly she has no idea who I am. Her family visit on a regular basis but she says that they have not been. I live close and I am very lonely without her but not sure if going in every day is helpful for either of us. Sorry to ramble on but would be grateful for advice. thanks