My Mum has vascular dementia, but is also confined to a hospital bed in her own home due to aneurisms on the brain which affect her mobility and eyesight.
She thinks she is house sitting for an Auntie (who passed away a couple of years ago). She keeps saying she wishes she would come home so that she can go to her house and sleep in her own bed. We have tried to tell her she is in her own home but she does not believe this. Should we just go along with her version of events and pretend that she will be going home tomorrow. She thinks she's been there for over a week now.
She also keeps asking for a hand to get out of bed so she can go to the toilet. She gets annoyed with us when we say she can't because she can't wal, but she insists she can. How can we prove to her she can't walk without getting her out of bed? She is incontinent and has been told that if she has to go to the toilet just to go and it will get cleaned up. She keeps saying that is disgusting and that she needs to use the toilet. The nurse suggested a catheter about a week ago but everytime she came to do it Mam was asleep and she wouldn't wake her. Mam refused to have one any way so still not sure if it will happen.
She thinks she is house sitting for an Auntie (who passed away a couple of years ago). She keeps saying she wishes she would come home so that she can go to her house and sleep in her own bed. We have tried to tell her she is in her own home but she does not believe this. Should we just go along with her version of events and pretend that she will be going home tomorrow. She thinks she's been there for over a week now.
She also keeps asking for a hand to get out of bed so she can go to the toilet. She gets annoyed with us when we say she can't because she can't wal, but she insists she can. How can we prove to her she can't walk without getting her out of bed? She is incontinent and has been told that if she has to go to the toilet just to go and it will get cleaned up. She keeps saying that is disgusting and that she needs to use the toilet. The nurse suggested a catheter about a week ago but everytime she came to do it Mam was asleep and she wouldn't wake her. Mam refused to have one any way so still not sure if it will happen.