The Consultant came to see us this morning at home, and I have to say he was excellent. Not only had he received my faxed letter, but had gone through it, made notes, and dealt with everything I had thrown at him. That was the good part of today.
Then my Dad became more agitated, but I had to leave to go back to work. The ‘car’ thing was raising its head again. He had some lunch and seemed OK. An hour after I left my mum rang to say my Dad had gone AWOL. A friend rang to say he had seen my Dad a few hundred metres down the road and was going to try and persuade him to go home. My Dad in fact went home of his own accord and my Mum decided to take him for a drive.
They came home and my Dad insisted my Mum take him into town to get him car. When she wouldn’t he kicked off big time. He became threatening and my Mum locked herself in the study with the phone. She rang the Mental Health unit and all they could suggest was that she call the Police. She rang me (I could hear my Dad pounding on the door) and I said she must call the Police. Both my sister and I went up and got there before the Police. My Dad was OK with me but we kept my Mum out of the way.
The Police came and were excellent. They called an ambulance and they took him to A&E. I stayed with him and tests showed that he had a slight UTI, but the Doctor’s view was that this may be a coincidence. The UTI was not serious enough to admit him, but there was no way my Mum would have him home (and this time I fully support her).
The upshot is my Dad is to stay in hospital overnight. My mum has an appointment with an EMI care home tomorrow morning and our hope is that he will be discharged to the care of the home, temporarily at first, but with a view to it being permanent.![Frown :( :(](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
Then my Dad became more agitated, but I had to leave to go back to work. The ‘car’ thing was raising its head again. He had some lunch and seemed OK. An hour after I left my mum rang to say my Dad had gone AWOL. A friend rang to say he had seen my Dad a few hundred metres down the road and was going to try and persuade him to go home. My Dad in fact went home of his own accord and my Mum decided to take him for a drive.
They came home and my Dad insisted my Mum take him into town to get him car. When she wouldn’t he kicked off big time. He became threatening and my Mum locked herself in the study with the phone. She rang the Mental Health unit and all they could suggest was that she call the Police. She rang me (I could hear my Dad pounding on the door) and I said she must call the Police. Both my sister and I went up and got there before the Police. My Dad was OK with me but we kept my Mum out of the way.
The Police came and were excellent. They called an ambulance and they took him to A&E. I stayed with him and tests showed that he had a slight UTI, but the Doctor’s view was that this may be a coincidence. The UTI was not serious enough to admit him, but there was no way my Mum would have him home (and this time I fully support her).
The upshot is my Dad is to stay in hospital overnight. My mum has an appointment with an EMI care home tomorrow morning and our hope is that he will be discharged to the care of the home, temporarily at first, but with a view to it being permanent.