To all those who are coping with this, I feel your frustration. You are not alone, although having said that - caring for a PWD can be very isolating and it's good to have this forum where we can pour it all out, not be judged, take a breath, and start again.
My husband has a rare form of FTD with Primary Progressive Aphasia. So not only does he have trouble understanding instructions or even simple sentences - he is also unable to relate to objects around (or on) him. He'll pick up a bag of groceries from the bottom, emptying it out in the process. Press the door knob to turn on a light, and the newest one - try to clean the toilet with the toilet brush, then put the toilet brush in it's holder upside down - brush sticking up. Not in any way hygienic. I now need to hide the toilet brush! And am therefore constantly following him around disinfecting and cleaning up, biting my tongue trying not to "correct" him, as he really doesn't realise he's done anything differently. The other day he used the toilet, and instead of flushing all the used toilet paper, he piled it into a heap on top of the toilet tank. And thrown some of it on the floor. Today he opened a drawer, thinking it would turn on a light! I'm exhausted, this is just an extra thing to deal with, on top of doing everything else. Educating myself about his disease does help me to understand why he does these things, and what is happening to him. But it doesn't make it any easier for me to deal with when he blames me for why things are "the wrong way round" or "not working properly". It's clear to me that the way PWD see the word around them is very confusing and frustrating. It's just so sad that there's nothing we can do to fix what's going on in their brains.
Does anyone else's loved one has similar issues with everyday objects? Are there any suggestions for how to make things less confusing for them? I know it's not going to get any better, unfortunately![Frown :( :(](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
My husband has a rare form of FTD with Primary Progressive Aphasia. So not only does he have trouble understanding instructions or even simple sentences - he is also unable to relate to objects around (or on) him. He'll pick up a bag of groceries from the bottom, emptying it out in the process. Press the door knob to turn on a light, and the newest one - try to clean the toilet with the toilet brush, then put the toilet brush in it's holder upside down - brush sticking up. Not in any way hygienic. I now need to hide the toilet brush! And am therefore constantly following him around disinfecting and cleaning up, biting my tongue trying not to "correct" him, as he really doesn't realise he's done anything differently. The other day he used the toilet, and instead of flushing all the used toilet paper, he piled it into a heap on top of the toilet tank. And thrown some of it on the floor. Today he opened a drawer, thinking it would turn on a light! I'm exhausted, this is just an extra thing to deal with, on top of doing everything else. Educating myself about his disease does help me to understand why he does these things, and what is happening to him. But it doesn't make it any easier for me to deal with when he blames me for why things are "the wrong way round" or "not working properly". It's clear to me that the way PWD see the word around them is very confusing and frustrating. It's just so sad that there's nothing we can do to fix what's going on in their brains.
Does anyone else's loved one has similar issues with everyday objects? Are there any suggestions for how to make things less confusing for them? I know it's not going to get any better, unfortunately