ive been lookin after my mum in law 4 6 years without any real catastrophies, just mood swings etc, her body was great even goin 2 loo herself,just her mind,but after much naggin from the doc 6 weeks ago i got a carer fromMODERATOR NOTE: Name of Care Company removed 2 come look after mum 4 1 week as she refused 2 go into respite,1st mistake was i never got 2 meet carer 1st,turns out she was a battleaxe who could hardly speak any english n seein mums bad gettin out her words they came 2 blows she said mum was aggressive but mum was the 1 with bruises n shes now being investigated,but im jumpin ahead, on the last day apparently mum 'fell' downstairs n broke her left ankle,sothe next evenin i visited her in hospital,i asked why she wasnt on dementia ward as she suffers from extreme ants in her pants n cant sit still 4 5 mins,they said dont worry shell b goin no where in the cast! so fool i am i trust them after all its a hospital right! well that next morn she got up fell down n broke her right hip,had to have op 2 put in metal ball!then they decided she needed an alarm mat,did they just ignore me,or think im stupid!anyway after 3 weeksof her goin downhill mentally in there,she had to go to carehome 4 rehabilitation, spent 3 weeks there kept fallin so they put her on a better ward where they could look after her betta where she fell the very next day n broke her left wrist which needs to be set with pins in,we r waitin 4 op,so i took her fron care home as she was also in a state cryin alot n sayin they were nasty 2 her, so altough i only live 2 doors away with my family im now havin 2 stay with mum 24 hrs,shes cryin all the time even thou shes home now,shes now incontinent as they just left her in pants all the time,she cant converse at all now either,so i ask u,was it worth going away 4 four bloody days in norfolk?
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