Hi:
Sorry about your eye, hope it gets better soon - but look on the bright side you currently have two visions of your lovely wife complaining, yelling, arguing etc etc etc. and when your vision returns to normal you'll only have one. But serious I think you miss socializing with friends and are upset, frustrated, tired and even a bit angry that you are housebound and can't go out when you would like I know you love your wife and she loves you too. She's most likely frustrated too. You are both eating off each others frustrations and the circle goes round & round. Don't know how mobile your wife is but my husband is still able to get around. We have a library meeting that we go to, also on bus trips and walks. Is there something like that where you live (just to get out of house), she might enjoy meeting other people. What are her interests? You need to get away from each other for awhile (an hour or two every few days).
For her lack of eating, have you tried nutritional drinks. We have this nutritional drink called Boost, it's for older people who don't eat enough. It comes in different flavours and actually tastes like a milkshake. Tastes better when cool. Be crafty & try your acting skills, drink one yourself first and she might want one too.
Good Luck.
Sometimes I have to look twice at these posts to ensure I did not write them. I suppose that is one of the reasons I like TP because I know so many people are experiencing exactly the same as me.
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