My partner is quite happy, he is self contained, he does not worry, he is totally unconcerned with his diagnosis ( 2 months ago) of vascular dementia. He is home all day recovering from major surgery which made the dementia so much worse. He does a few puzzles and watches dvd's, and will come with me for a short walk around our village.
Me? Well, I cook, I clean, I do all the housework, I garden, most importantly, I care for himself, I also am trying to salvage the remnants of my business which I had to close recently - and trying now to work from home - I am a genealogist. I deal with the mountains of forms and all the people that keep coming in connection with the diagnosis, social services etc etc.
The only thing I am complaining about, really, is that even though my dearest partner lives in the house with me, it is like living alone. There is nothing, no conversation, no affection, no nothing - yet it's only 2 months since he was diagnosed - why does it all seem to be moving so quickly?
I find it really rather scary
rant over